Top 9 'Credibility-and-Coalition' Skills to develop for Leading Projects When You're Not the Boss - Goh Ling Yong
Have you ever been in this situation? Your manager pulls you aside and says, "We have a critical new project, and I want you to take the lead." You feel a surge of excitement and pride. But then comes the catch: you're not getting a new title, a new team, or any formal authority. You're just... in charge.
Suddenly, you're tasked with corralling colleagues who are your peers, wrangling resources from other departments, and driving a timeline without the official title of "Project Manager" or "Team Lead." It can feel like you've been asked to herd cats—talented, busy, and slightly indifferent cats. How do you get everyone moving in the same direction when you can't rely on a hierarchy?
The answer lies in a powerful combination of two forces: Credibility and Coalition. Credibility is the foundation of trust and respect you build for yourself; it's why people choose to listen to you. Coalition is the network of alliances and mutual support you build around you; it's why people want to work with you. Master these, and you can lead any project, from anywhere in the organization. Here are the nine essential skills to get you there.
1. Cultivate Deep Domain Expertise
Before anyone will follow your lead, they need to believe you know where you're going. Deep domain expertise isn't about knowing everything, but it is about becoming the go-to person for the core subject matter of your project. This is the bedrock of your credibility. When you speak with confidence and deep understanding, people naturally defer to your judgment.
Your expertise gives your suggestions weight. Instead of saying, "I think we should try this," you can say, "Based on the performance data from our last three campaigns and current market trends, this approach is most likely to succeed because..." See the difference? The first is an opinion; the second is an informed strategy. This level of knowledge shuts down unproductive debates and builds momentum.
- How to develop it:
- Go Beyond Your Role: Read industry publications, listen to podcasts, and follow thought leaders in your field. Understand not just your task, but how it fits into the bigger industry picture.
- Volunteer for the Hard Stuff: Raise your hand for the challenging tasks that no one else wants. This is where the deepest learning happens.
- Ask Insatiably: Schedule 15-minute chats with senior colleagues or experts in other departments. Come prepared with smart questions. Show them you're curious and eager to learn.
2. Practice Unwavering Reliability
If expertise is the foundation, reliability is the steel frame that holds your credibility together. Being reliable is simple but not easy: you do what you say you will do, when you say you will do it. Every time you meet a deadline, deliver quality work, or follow through on a promise, you make a deposit in your "trust bank." When you need to ask a colleague for a favor or push for a tight deadline, you'll have plenty of capital to draw from.
Conversely, nothing erodes influence faster than being flaky. A single missed deadline or forgotten promise can undo months of hard work. In the absence of formal authority, your word is your bond. It's the currency you trade on, so protect it fiercely.
- How to practice it:
- Under-Promise, Over-Deliver: If you think a task will take three days, ask for four. Delivering early is a powerful way to build a reputation for excellence.
- Communicate Proactively: If you're going to miss a deadline (it happens!), communicate it the moment you know. Provide a reason, a solution, and a new timeline. Taking ownership of a delay is far better than making others chase you for an update.
- Be Meticulously Organized: Use whatever system works for you—a digital to-do list, a physical planner, calendar reminders—to ensure nothing falls through the cracks.
3. Be a Proactive Problem-Solver, Not a Problem-Spotter
Anyone can point out a problem. A true leader, with or without a title, brings solutions. When you're leading a project, roadblocks are inevitable. The server will crash, a key stakeholder will go on vacation, the budget will be questioned. How you respond in these moments defines your leadership potential.
Instead of running to your manager with the problem, train yourself to approach them with the problem and a few potential solutions. This shifts your role from being a mere team member to a strategic partner. It shows you're taking ownership and thinking several steps ahead, which builds immense confidence in your ability to steer the project successfully.
- How to apply it:
- "Problem + 3 Solutions" Framework: When you encounter an obstacle, brainstorm three potential paths forward. Briefly outline the pros and cons of each. This structured thinking helps you and others make a quick, informed decision.
- Anticipate Risks: At the start of a project, spend 30 minutes thinking, "What could go wrong here?" and jot down a few preventative measures. Being prepared makes you look prescient, not panicked.
4. Master Exceptional Communication (Clarity & Conciseness)
When you don't have authority, you can't rely on commands. You have to rely on clarity. Your ability to communicate the project's goals, status, and needs simply and effectively is paramount. This means cutting through the jargon, eliminating ambiguity, and ensuring everyone has the information they need to do their jobs well, without overwhelming them.
Great informal leaders are great translators. They can take a complex technical challenge and explain its business impact to a marketing stakeholder. They can summarize a rambling hour-long meeting into three clear action items. This service of providing clarity makes you indispensable to the project and the team.
- How to improve it:
- Use the BLUF Method: "Bottom Line Up Front." Start your emails and updates with the most important piece of information or the specific action you need. People are busy; respect their time.
- Document and Confirm: After a key conversation or meeting, send a brief follow-up email summarizing the decisions made and the next steps. This creates alignment and a written record, preventing future misunderstandings.
5. Maintain Composure Under Pressure
Projects are messy. There will be moments of high stress, tight deadlines, and unexpected failures. While others might get frantic or start pointing fingers, the informal leader remains the calm anchor in the storm. Your composure is contagious; it signals to the team that while the situation is serious, it's under control and solvable.
Losing your cool, on the other hand, instantly vaporizes your credibility. No one wants to follow someone who is panicking. By regulating your own emotions, you create the psychological safety needed for the team to think clearly and work together to find a solution. Your steadiness becomes a source of strength for everyone involved.
- How to build it:
- The 5-Second Pause: When bad news hits, train yourself to pause for five full seconds before you speak or type. Take a deep breath. This small gap prevents a knee-jerk reaction and allows for a more considered response.
- Focus on the Next Right Action: Instead of getting overwhelmed by the magnitude of a problem, ask the team, "Okay, what's the very next step we can take to move forward?" This breaks the paralysis and shifts the focus from blame to action.
6. Build Strategic Relationships
This isn't about being the most popular person in the office; it's about building a coalition. Leading a project requires collaboration across teams and functions. You need help from IT, input from sales, and approval from legal. If the first time you're speaking to these people is when you need something from them, you're already behind.
Strategic relationship building means investing in people before you need them. It's understanding their goals, their pressures, and their communication styles. This is a core concept Goh Ling Yong often emphasizes—that the modern workplace runs on a "trust economy." You build this trust by showing genuine interest and offering help first. When you have a network of allies who know and respect you, a simple request is far more likely to be met with a "yes."
- How to practice it:
- Schedule "Discovery" Coffees: Once a month, invite a colleague from a different department for a 20-minute coffee chat. Don't ask for anything. Instead, ask them: "What's the most exciting thing you're working on?" or "What's the biggest challenge your team is facing?"
- Map Your Stakeholders: Identify everyone who has a stake in your project's success. Understand what they care about (their KPIs, their boss's priorities) and how your project can help them achieve their goals.
7. Become a Masterful Facilitator
Many project "leaders" think their job is to have all the answers. It's not. Your job is to guide the team to the best answers. Masterful facilitation is the art of running meetings and discussions that are inclusive, focused, and result in clear decisions and actions. This is one of the most visible ways to demonstrate leadership without a title.
When you run a great meeting, you create order out of chaos. You ensure the quiet but brilliant engineer has a chance to speak, you gently steer the conversation back on track when it derails, and you end with everyone knowing exactly what they're responsible for. People will be grateful for your leadership because you make their collaboration more efficient and less painful.
- How to facilitate well:
- The Holy Trinity: Agenda, Objective, Timekeeper. Never run a meeting without a clear agenda that states the one key objective. Assign a timekeeper (or use a timer) to keep everyone on track.
- Use a "Parking Lot": When a good but off-topic idea comes up, don't shut it down. Acknowledge it and place it in a "parking lot" (a corner of the whiteboard or a note) to be addressed later. This validates the person's contribution without derailing the meeting.
8. Frame the "What's In It For Them" (WIIFT)
Since you can't command people to do things, you have to persuade them. The most effective way to do this is by answering their unspoken question: "What's in it for me?" (WIIFT). People are driven by their own priorities, pressures, and goals. To build a strong coalition, you need to align the project's needs with their personal and professional interests.
This requires empathy and a bit of homework. Before you ask a colleague to take on an extra task, think about it from their perspective. Will this new skill look great on their performance review? Does it solve a nagging problem that has been bothering their team for months? Does it give them visibility with a senior leader they admire? Framing your request in their language of benefit is the difference between getting an enthusiastic partner and a reluctant participant.
- How to apply it:
- Lead with the "Why": Instead of saying, "Can you please pull this data for me?" try, "I know your team is focused on improving customer retention. The data I'm asking for will help us identify the at-risk clients for the new initiative we're both working on, which should really help your numbers."
- Acknowledge the "Cost": Show you understand their workload. Phrases like, "I know you're swamped right now, but your expertise here would be invaluable," demonstrate respect for their time and make them more willing to help.
9. Give Credit Away, Generously and Specifically
This final skill is perhaps the most powerful for building a loyal coalition. As an informal leader, your power comes from the goodwill of your team. The fastest way to build that goodwill is to shine a spotlight on the great work of others. When someone goes above and beyond, acknowledge it. And don't just do it privately—do it publicly.
When the project succeeds, an informal leader deflects the praise to the team. When it stumbles, they absorb the responsibility. This creates a culture of psychological safety and makes people eager to work with you again. They know that you will have their back and celebrate their wins as your own. You become a "credit multiplier," and people will line up to be part of your next project.
- How to do it effectively:
- Be Specific in Public Praise: Instead of a generic "Thanks to Sarah," send an email to her manager (and CC her) saying, "I wanted to highlight Sarah's incredible work. Her detailed analysis of the user data uncovered a key insight that completely changed our project's direction for the better. We couldn't have done it without her."
- Use "We," Not "I": In status updates and presentations, consistently use "we" to describe progress and successes. This reinforces the sense that it's a shared team effort.
Your Title Doesn't Define Your Impact
Leading a project without being the boss is one of the most challenging—and rewarding—experiences you can have in your career. It forces you to move beyond relying on a title and to start cultivating genuine influence.
The journey starts by building an unshakeable foundation of Credibility through your expertise and reliability. Then, you use that foundation to build a powerful Coalition by communicating, facilitating, and connecting the project's goals to the goals of others. As I've seen time and again in my own career and as a principle Goh Ling Yong consistently teaches, leadership is not a position you're given; it's a choice you make and an influence you earn, one action at a time.
Don't wait for permission or a promotion to lead. Start developing these nine skills today. Pick just one or two to focus on this quarter and watch how your influence begins to grow.
What about you? Which of these skills do you find most crucial for leading without authority? Share your experience or a favorite tip in the comments below!
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